Pet Custody Lawyers Sydney

Who gets to keep the pet after a relationship breakdown?

We understand that for many, the family pet is considered an important and beloved part of the family. When relationships break down, deciding who keeps the family pet can quickly become emotional and complex.

In June 2025, significant changes were made to the Family Law Act 1975 (Cth), including the creation of a legal framework for how the Court decides what happens to pets after the breakdown of a marriage or de facto relationship. Those amendments classify pets (referred to under the law as “companion animals”) as a special category of property, and set out a list of specific factors for the court to consider when deciding what orders to make in relation to pets following a separation.

The inclusion of pets as a special category of property under the amendments acknowledges the special place that pets hold within many Australian families, as well as recognising the importance of addressing the evolving nature of family violence within our community, and that unfortunately, that violence can sometimes manifest in the form of threats to remove or harm a family pet.



Disputes over pets can arise in both de facto relationships and marriages

They are often closely tied to broader property settlements. While the law does not formally recognise “custody” of pets in the same way as children, practical arrangements can still be negotiated to reflect the needs of both parties and the pet.



If you are considering a separation and what arrangements to put in place for your pet, obtaining legal advice at an early stage can help you understand your options and help achieve the best outcome for you and your beloved furry friend.

What kind of orders can the Court make in relation to pets

If your matter is in Court, there are only three outcomes that the Court can order:

  1. For one party to the marriage or de facto relationship (or another third party joined to the proceedings) to have ownership of the pet.
  2. For ownership of the pet to be transferred to another person who is not a party to the proceedings but has consented to the pet being transferred to them; e.g. a friend, or an adult child of the parties.
  3. For the pet to be sold, and for the sale proceeds to be divided in a manner decided by the Court. This would usually be considered a last resort, and would likely only arise if the pet in question had significant commercial value.

Importantly, the Court can only make an order for one person to have ownership of the pet. The Court cannot make orders for “shared custody” style arrangements for pets, even if this is by consent.

However, if there is agreement to sharing the future care of a pet, this is something that can be negotiated outside of Court.

How does the Court decide pet ownership?

In determining what orders (if any) to make in relation to the ownership of a pet, The Court considers a range of factors, including:


  • How the pet was acquired in the first place.
  • Who has the current ownership or possession of the pet;
  • The extent to which each party cared for, and paid for the maintenance of, the pet.
  • Any allegations of family violence between the parties to the marriage or de facto relationship.
  • Any history of actual or threatened cruelty or abuse by either party towards the pet.
  • Any attachment by a party, or a child of the marriage or de facto relationship, to the pet.
  • The demonstrated ability of each party to care for and maintain the pet in the future, without support or involvement from the other party.
  • Any other fact or circumstance which the Court considers is relevant.

common questions

Frequently Asked Questions

In considering the factors set out above, relevant information may include:

  • Documents from the NSW Pet Registry, including proof of registration and ownership.
  • If your pet was purchased from a breeder: a purchase receipt showing how much was paid for the pet, and messages or emails between you and breeder showing communication regarding the purchase process.
  • Vet records, including invoices and communication with the between you and the vet regarding the care of your pet.
  • Evidence about other expenses related to your pet and who paid these, including pet insurance, grooming, food etc.
  • Any communication between you and your partner regarding the intended ownership or care arrangements for your pet either during or after your relationship.
  • If you have children, what kind of bond exists between your children and your pet, and what arrangements are in place for your children? I.e. will the pet be living in the same home as the pet?
  • any evidence regarding any alleged family violence, animal cruelty, or threats being made in relation to your pet (including any threats to remove or prevent access to your pet.)

Generally speaking, no. The same considerations regarding ownership of a pet after separation apply regardless of whether you were in a de facto relationship or married.
However, it is important to note that if your relationship does not meet the requirements to be considered a de facto relationship under the Family Law Act 1975 (Cth), then you may not be able to bring an application to the family law courts in relation to your pet, and you may have to consider other options, including negotiations, or proceedings in another Court, such as the Local Court of NSW. If that’s the case, then different considerations will apply.
If you’re unsure about your relationship and what will happen to your pet, contact us here.

The Court can only make an order for one person to have ownership of the pet. The Court cannot make orders for “shared custody” style arrangements for pets, even if this is what both parties want.
However, that doesn’t prevent you and your former partner from reaching a private agreement outside of Court to share the care of your pet. This is something that we can assist with negotiating as part of the overall process of separation.
If you’re considering whether a shared care arrangement can work for you, contact us to discuss your situation and understand your options.

Under the Family Law Act 1975 (Cth), a companion animal is defined as an animal kept by either or both party to a marriage or a de facto relationship, primarily for the purpose of companionship. It does not include:
  • disability assistance animals;
  • an animal kept as part of a business, for agricultural purposes, or for laboratory tests or experiments.
In short, the family cat, dog, fish, bird, etc, will be covered under the law in Australia, and considered a companion animal. If you’re unsure whether your pet meets the definition, contact us to discuss your situation.

No. In NSW all pet dogs and cats need to be registered with the NSW Pet Registry, and you must be at least 18 years old to be the registered owner.
If your child is over the age of 18, then you may be able to request an order for the transfer of your pet to them, provided that they agree. However, if there is a dispute between you and your former partner regarding the ownership and arrangements for your pet, it is important you seek legal advice prior to taking any steps regarding the ownership of your pet.

No. Although the Family Law Act 1975 (Cth) has created a special category of property to address how the Court makes decisions in relation to pets, they remain property at law, and the considerations and kinds of orders available are very different to how the court decides what arrangements to order in relation to children.

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